Varied tones...

I speak differently to guys as i do to girls.

I speak differently to guys, depending who they are to me.

I noticed last nite that the tone in my voice changed with my ex.

When i was still single and we hung out, id sound all girly and feminine.

Now i speak to him in the way i speak to my brothers, or to my really close male friends...because around them, i am the tomboy i once was and i speak to them like i am one of the boys!

I notice now that when i speak to him my girly feminine voice is directed to him.

Even when im upset with him or around him...i will still be soft spoken...

But with anyone else, i would be loud and angry!

I dont know.

Is it a matter of my sub-conscious choosing my different personalities and directing them to whomever???

I dont think i choose to speak in what tone with whom...

Is the girly, feminine me...really me? Or is the tomboy the real me? Can't i be both...aren't i both???

All i know is, the tone i now speak in, to my ex...its changed...which means our relationship has changed.