The three of us had an enjoyable lunch. We also had a fun time getting the nibblies for the Farewell drinks at work. When we got back to work there she was, apparently fuming. I thought she was joking when she opened her car door and slammed it into u...I mean, I even said "Hi!" to her...but she rudely replied with silence. I think that was the point when phil and i just continued walking to the front door. As we were walking, approaching the steps...in the background i hear a slap amidst the quarrel...i think u organised lunch with her, but u forgot and she waited for u to return...i dont know why she didnt call ur mobile, because your phone was on...i remember phil using ur phone to call alex.
phil and i took a couple more steps and as we approached the door, we both hear another slap, and phil turned to me and said: "gee, that was a loud slap...i wouldnt take that from my woman, especially not in front of my work mates!"
and thats when i pointedly said to phil: "i would never do that to my guy, especially not in public. whatever that needs to be discussed, should be discussed in private. a man needs to be treated like a man - shown that respect, so that others will show him respect...at least in public!"
obviously that is me, and i cant say that for other women out there. but i feel like i get kicked in the gut when i see girls treating guys like dirt...i mean worse than dogs, cos those type of women would be pampering their dogs...
ive sat in the car to go to lunch with both of you before...we were gonna go to lunch and she was bored, so she joined us...i hopped into your car, and she just stood their waiting for you to open the door, and when you did, she refused to sit down...the car seat was apparently too dirty for her highness' arse! lucky for her, you had a bag of old clothes that you were going to put in a bin for charity. and so you took some old t-shirts and lined the chair for her, including the chair's back.
during that car ride she kept calling you a wanker, and at first i thought perhaps it was a pet name thing...quirky couple...who knows right? well the ride to the shops and the ride back...i actually lost count on how many times she called you a bloody wanker! i'm sorry, but i think its utterly disrespectful that she was calling you names, and all you had were sweet names for her, like hun...my princess...etc...
she isnt completely to blame for your mistreatment, uno...obviously you are putting up with it, although...if i were you, id boot her precious butt right out of the door! you are a great guy...funny, considerate, hard working, attractive...etc...i dont know why you sit there and take it? you are far more attractive than she is, far more attractive personality-wise than she is. whilst she is just plain mean!
so is it true when they say that you gotta be mean to keep them keen?
i mean, im difficult but i dont roll a guy flat out like a steamroller! she could bulldoze you my friend and the saddistic thing, is that you would be there taking it in stride! at which point i must ask you: "WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU???"
i was about to walk into our departments office, when you catch up with me. you come after me with the bag of nibblies and a red left cheek in tow...you act as though nothing has happened...and although i want to ask you a million questions as to why you are still with her and why you feel you must cop the abuse...cos both phil and i would dump her in an instant...i bite my tongue and act like nothing happened!
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