Transitional phase...

Be it the sun or the moon or the fact that the alignment is out of whack...

Something is going on.

Quite a number of people i know have recently suffered a broken heart...me, being one of them...

And they are people who i thought would end up marrying their partners.

How wrong was i?

A friend emailed this morning and wondered if i had 5 minutes to chat...i'm working from home...i have plenty of time to chat! *LoL*

So, i called his mobile and we talked a bit and then we were joking about our marriages to our respective banks. I told him about how i was in the process of signing my pre-nup to the bank...that made him laugh.

I have been describing my home loan as such, a marriage, 30 years is the what the pre-nup has outlined...at least i know it will last longer than most marriages.
=P

This friend, secretly hinted that he was single now, and it was only when we started talking about our "marriages to the bank" did he come out with it. It seems he's been single for a while now...what a shame. He is a really nice and funny guy. It seems his gf was the one who instigated the break up.

I've also noticed that the people who are caught in this "Transitional Phase", if they dont break up with their partners, they marry them. I guess thats the only other path to follow???

Maybe this isnt something that has been fated by the stars in the sky, maybe its just the way of life. In our mid-20's we have to make certain changes. And these things just happen. It forces us to grow up and in turn we learn to make better decisions the next time around.

But im starting to doubt that there are many "next time(s)" for us all. Some will be fortunate, others i believe will miss out.

I think i fall into the category of those missing out.