When a story unfolds...

I'm currently feeling quite torn...

In attempt to help my friend (that got hurt by the new couple), i decided i should speak to a close male friend of our's (neutral party) to know how he is currently feeling...whether he wants to be left alone, or if he is in a talking mood???

I wondered if it was okay, for me...a girl, to approach him and talk to him as i would with my brothers when they break up with their gfs, uno?

I mean, its easier for me to console my girlfriends in these situations...i would just rock up to their place with a truckload of icecream or cheesecake or chocolate...maybe all three...some DVDs and we would all talk...we would cry...we would laugh at how stoopid we were being...and in the end, she would feel that itsy bitsy tiny bit better!

But for guys, you cant do much if the person who is hurting doesnt drink much alcohol, right? It seems like the best way to console a guy, is to take them out and drown their sorrows with as much alcohol it will take to make them go blind!

I'm learning about how he found out that the girl he liked was stolen by his mate...how the mate justified his act in stealing the girl from him...who everyone thinks is in the wrong...how the guy is really really cut up about the whole thing!

I'm worried that i cant say or do much...he probably wants to stay away from all of us...i dont blame him...poor guy!

In situations like these, i feel for the underdog...but the situation is complicated cos one of the member of the party causing the pain is my best friend!

*ugh*