pick.me.up ^

I'm not writing this to gloat...if anything its more to remind me that im not as pitiful as i may sometimes think of myself...this is for those days when all i see in front of my horizon are dark clouds...whilst this is fresh, just occurred...knowing my memory, i need to write it down so that i wont forget it!

You SO look like your mother...as my previous blog, this is a compliment...its a sign that i should age gracefully like my mother...and its nice to know that people think she looks really young for her age...so hopefully when i get to her age, i will look just as good!

There are still some men out there that believe in romance...its uplifting to know that there is still hope...that there are guys out there that want the same things that i want from a partner...those guys may not be right for me, but hey...it doesnt hurt to know such guys to help me get through those days where i sit and think "what the? where are those romantic men in the world???" right in front of me apparently! hehheehe

The world is small...6 degrees of separation...i will bump into my future partner shortly through a friend...how many people have i met through friends who have introduced their friends to me?...quite a number of them...how many bfs have i met through other friends...all of them!

My parents have shown that they are proud of me...expressed before, during and after my Graduation...my parents would have given me anything to be honest, had i asked them for it. i didnt ask for anything except that we all get there on time...i'm still waiting for my portraits to be sent to me, i think they will show two parents smiling from ear to ear!

Im surrounded by nice people...the people ino and love are beautiful beings...anybody who i would deem toxic, well...i sever all ties with such people...and hopefully i can breathe easier knowing that my judgement is still clear and i wont suffer from heartache later on...well i havent really suffered from heartache, so i guess thats a plus...

Im organized, resiliant, an angel, a champ, have a gorgeous figure...these are only a couple of the compliments i got last week from various men...young and older...i appreciate them for what they are worth...thank u...i just need to remember that they were given to me...directed to me...only for me...*LoL*

Being nice, doing helpful things for others...it makes me feel good...i like going around and, well...offer the helping hand to someone who is short of a hand (so to speak). There was a guy in a wheelchair who was in his local newsagent...i was in there during my lunch break to pick up some cards for my friends who were graduating...he dropped some coins that he was balancing off his leg. i thought it was a bit rude that surrounding people didnt even notice...so i walked over and helped him pick up his coins...he said thanks and it made me happy!

Music is good for the soul...and sometimes...jazz and blues is the cure for that heartsinking feeling you have deep within the core of yourself...a good dose of Sade makes me feel better, my favourite song is still kiss of life...drown out your sorrow by turning the music up loud...get comfy in your chair and just sink into it...

Laugh out loud...preferrably at yourself...i can say and do blonde things...so can my brothers...so can anyone really, so i honestly shouldnt call it "blonde things"...just laugh...a good hearty laugh...talk to that person who always manages to make you see the sunny side of things...in my case, its any one of my fantabulous girlfriends... *^_^*

^ pick.me.up: NO! (in a defensive tone), im not referring to getting picked up by a guy...do one of the listed things, or at least remember one of them and feel better about urself...go on...