What women want...

Well, its really about what this particular woman wants.

Or should i say, what this girl wants.

(I'm referring to myself)

I may not actually find him...and i am not writing this to complain. I'm just writing it, because its clear in my head and i want to finalise the epiphany that came to me over the weekend, by giving it a place on my blog.

At the end of a day, the women of today are very self sufficient. We are brought up today with the ability to do almost everything on our own. It doesnt mean we dont want a man in our lives, but we have learnt to accept that if there is no man in our life, we got to be able to do it for ourselves. The right man may not cross my path. I may not cross his. I won't sit on the side waiting for a man to come into my life to help fix my tyre either, (if it needs mending). I will, on the other hand, change the tyre myself.

That having said, the type of man i would like to end up with will be one who cares about my health and happiness. He will be the one who will ask me when i am sick with the flu, whether i want chicken soup? He may not know exactly what i need from him, but will be loving enough to care to just ask if i do need anything at all to make me feel a bit more comfortable. I may not want or need anything, or know what i want or need, myself...but if he just asks me: "Honey, is there anything i can do to help make you feel better?"

He will make my day.

I can look after myself in every other way...the only time that i cant or am unable to is when i'm physically down. Just like when i broke my ankle. It was frustrating not being able to sleep...even though i had pain killers and sleeping pills in my system. The throbbing was insane and it kept me awake.

To have someone come over and keep you company melts any ice queen's heart...when the guy asks if you need more pillows to keep your leg elevated...*sigh*...it shows that he is looking out for you and really cares. (This didnt happen!)

So, thats what im talking about!!!

I think at the end of the day, if a guy genuinely cares to ask if he can help you to make things a little bit easier, less stressful, less painful, or just to see you smile...then he is a keeper.

^_^