But every time we arrange a date and time, he had to cancel on me because he had something else to do...be it some Fitness Expo...another appointment...and then i was told, hurting his back.
Its been about 1-2 months of trying to set up an appointment. So, i devised my own workout program to get me started.
I went to the gym last night as usual. Being a Tuesday night i did my cardio and then went to do my Body Balance class. I left the class slightly early than normal and walked into the circuit room, only to find my personal trainer there...and he looked so guilty, as though i had caught him having sex with a co-worker! But all he was really doing was the seated row for his back and talking to another client/friend.
He looked at me with shame, and i maturely heckled the life out of him, increasing the amount of guilt he was feeling. The other client/friend was also paying him out...telling him "I hate when men don't return phone calls!!! You're one of those guys, aren't you?" And then he tried to explain...
He had the Fitness Expo so he had to cancel that weekend...and then he hurt his back...he doesnt check his phone regularly...well he doesnt carry it around often...he was organising his trip, in which he will be leaving to go to in a weeks time...i should email him, cos he does check his emails regularly...and i told him i did, trying to rearrange another date/time...then he said email me again...then he set an appointment for this Sunday at 1pm...i was like "Are you sure???"...he said that the other client/friend will be his witness!...he better not screw up this time!!!
*LoL*
I love seeing big brave "nothing scares me" type of men just shake with fear when they get caught and/or cornered!!! My personal trainer is a buff guy. And yet he was scared of two girls that he could bench with his little pinky!
After he explained...the client/friend asked him a general question "Why don't men return calls?" He must have been so guilty cos he started to explain himself again...*LoL*...and i pointed out and so did she, that that question was about the general male population...not about him...
I then added the "digging" hand gesture...and i told him that he ain't gonna be getting out any time soon!
Speaking of guilt...
I was looked after well by a GP last year for my broken ankle...and quite frankly he is a fabulous doctor...but because he is a "he" i didnt want to go back to him to do my physical and feminine checks. My local GP that i have been seeing since i was 2.5 y/o is also a great doctor...but he is also a "he" and so i didnt want him to do my physical or feminine checks either.
So, what is a girl to do? I really wanted to get my checks done...since im 25 now and i should start monitoring my health...but i really wanted to be seen by a female GP and i recalled a really good one (well she had a lot of female patients, I had noticed when i was sitting in the waiting room) when i use to visit the fabulous GP for my ankle. It was one of his colleagues. So, i went and made a visit with her and got my physical and feminine checks done.
But as i am sitting in the waiting area, i get caught by the fabulous GP sitting there waiting...but not waiting for him.
I feel like i am cheating on him by seeing another GP, and a female no less.
Is this the equivalent of going out with a guy and then dumping him for a girl???
Cos that would be a slap to the face.
I wonder if he is wondering whether he has done anything wrong, that i felt unsafe to make my visits with him...? That maybe in the past he had crossed the line of ethics and it has made me decide to see a "female" GP instead???
Let me say, that is not the case!!!
He has never crossed any lines or made me feel uncomfortable. He has always been professional with the way he treated me as a patient. Its just that since i needed to do a variety of "feminine checks"...i really needed a female doctor to do them and then explain to me as a woman can...to reassure me that everything is okay in the female way...to know that the doctor is a female and knows exactly what i am going through. I was anxious about getting all the checks done as is. Having a male doctor conduct them, just didnt cut it for me.
Yesterday, i had to go back and get my results...and when you get your results, you generally should go back to the doctor who has conducted the tests. So, i went back to see her. And he caught me again, waiting to be seen by her...and i felt guilty again.
She is an awesome doctor...just as great as he is...i'd like to continue to see the both of them...and i'm wondering whether its possible in such a relationship??? Would i be in the wrong for doing so???
hmm...
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