Wednesday, September 08, 2004

He speaks Spanish...

Dinner was okay...i enjoyed it, and it seemed as though i made him squirm with my questions...i think he found my questions challenging...well thats what he said later on.

He finds me witty. I take that as a nice compliment. According to him its "quite an attractive feature"...ermm yeah, once again, i take that as a nice compliment! *LoL*

Im so fudgin' gay! I really should stop and just be realistic, and not too harsh on him...i dont mean to ask the questions the way i do, but i just ask it as so. At least for now, he finds it amusing...when i went one step too far (well i thought i took it too far)...i said out loud that i should just bite my tongue and be quiet from that point onwards, but he asked me not to...he liked it, that i didnt have reservations in asking him.

I cant help being frank.

He mentioned that he lived with his sister, and his parents were overseas. So, i asked where? Where exactly overseas...half anticipating him to say Hong Kong or China or Singapore...but after a long pause he said they were in South America, Chile to be exact.

That was all i really wanted to know...

I didnt want to know anything else, about their business or their history...but he told me none the less. I sat and listened while he painstakingly told me (well it seemed painful - although it wasnt). I didnt enquire about anything after that, except to ask what language he chose to speak with his parents?

He speaks Spanish, Cantonese and English. Much like myself, who throws in a bit of English with Teo Chiew and Vietnamese, and substitute Cantonese when i cant think of the word in the other languages. ahhahaha

During dinner, i asked why a Tuesday, he asked me why not?

Fair enough, i left it at that...and he emailed me today, informing me that Tuesday is a good day, because come Wednesday there is only 2 days to go until the weekend comes. I replied to that email, asking if i was only a buffer before the weekend? =P I have yet to receive his response...but i have a feeling i'll get one tomoro, if not a call tonite!

haha...

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

ding! says: so has the dinner date brought about any extra feelings/conclusions?

petals said...

That has yet to be decided...

I get bored easily, unless the person is interesting...right now, of course he seems great, its only the start!

I'm currently infatuated with his "exotic" background...but that wont last long...lets see how the conversations develop...its really important that the person is open and honest with me, and that he doesnt try to be cute and coy...cos thats suppose to be my job!

Communication is a key thing in relationships (of all sorts)...and he needs to be able to keep me interested when we talk.

Right now, comparing the two of us, it looks like i have more to offer than he does (i'm being honest here) in a relationship...a big indicator that it could go wrong...but who knows, he may surprise me after all!

For now, i'll just try to enjoy what it is, while its here in the present.

Tu said...

Is he good looking? A total spunk or what? heheheeh

petals said...

no...i wouldnt say that he is a spunk...he isnt tall, about my height i think, without my heels on that is! *LoL*

smallish eyes, wavey hair, cheeky smile...

its not like im a good looking person either Chunga!
=P

i'd say he is okay looking...im more concerned about his personality anyways!

PiCkLeS said...

I find myself really really attracted to tall guys, the taller the better. I like to feel protected under their height. It's also a bonus when you want something from the top shelf!

petals said...

Yes, im physically attracted to guys who are taller than i am, with broad shoulders...and strong arms...gives me the sense of security!

But then again, i have found guys who fit the physical mould, arent actually strong mentally or emotionally...well the guys i've been out with...and i personally would like a guy who is stronger than i, in that respect.

Riss said...

oh man, i'm gone for 2 weeks and i've missed all the saucy gossip!