Some terms have been popping up in my life...either in reference to me or in reference to someone else...their origins are from either my philosophy or situations that we have been in...hope this makes sense to everyone else...
Pursue Me Time - This is the time in which u get to know someone and u can "actively pursue" the person. But u must remember, there is only a certain amount of time in which u can pursue the person before the time turns into "u are just a friend to me now and i wouldnt want to jeopardise our friendship". The "pursue me time" varies depending on the individual...but as a rule of thumb...well personally to me...it is usually about 3 months maybe longer depending on the guy. The reason why the time changes from "u can show interest in me, we can be more than friends" to "we are just friends" occurs (for me personally again), due to the lack of interest shown by the other party. So, as a result...i become resolved to being just a friend to them.
Often used in reference as so: "So, has 'so&so' past his pursue me time yet?"
Pursuable - This is a person who is worth pursuing and is worth giving some "pursue me time" to. A person that strikes an interest. A person that appeals to your eye. A person that u think is interested in u! hehehe... Pursuable may be used in reference to someone that u want to pursue u. Or the reverse, someone u are chasing after.
This is often used in a statement like: "Yeah he is really fun to talk to, very pursuable!"
Crush Slut - This is a person that is crushing on multiple people or chopping and changing between crushes. To avoid being a "crush slut" u must have a grievance period between each crush to severe all ties. Out of respect for your own dignity and esteem...u must refrain from crushing on one person straight after u decide another crush is not worth ur time. Also, if ur doing multiple crushes...ur in over ur head! Just give up now...how do u ever conclude that u will gain any success by crushing on more than one person?! Your energies are dispersing between multiple people, when u really need to focus on one person at any given time!
Most often heard like: "Oh my gosh she is such a crush slut...going from Mike to Peter to Andrew...now she is crush-slutting with Andrew and Jeremy!"
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