Carrie's current boyfriend - Jack Burger/Berger, previously went out with a lady who cheated on him. His reaction to a voice message from that lady on his answering machine was to give the double finger and a "Fudge You".
Okay, the Ex-file...the baggage...the decorator in their past...those emotions from the previous relationships that get dragged into the present relationship...the habits that u developed during ur past relationship that is brought into the present relationship...all those crappy things...How do u deal with it? Why isnt it dealt with before entering into another relationship? Why must the next person in ur life deal with it for ur ex?
I've been fortunate to have gone out with guys who i was their "first" real relationship...so there werent that many scars that needed healing, and the only baggage tended to be from their past crushes "that could have been"...dealing with those were headaches...i dont know what i would have done if i had to have dealt with an Ex.
I read a friends friend blog. The girl was basically wishing that she could punch her bf's ex for all the emotional crap that she as the current gf has to deal with now and more importantly, for the fact that her bf had loved the ex first.
Since, my track record is that of being first gf status, my assumption is that im the girl that all the future gf's of my ex will want to punch/kick/trip or just kill for the emotional baggage that they have to deal with. BUT i would like to think that i didnt leave my ex's in an emotional rollercoaster ride that they couldnt get off from. On the contrary...i still hold that all of my break ups have been neutral, yes it was hard at the time...but it wasnt nasty...and i still talk to all of my ex's. So, hopefully - no future gf will want to kick my arse.
IF anything, i hope they will turn around and thank me for grooming my ex's a touch, for moulding them a lil, making them adjusted to girly things and girly needs and girly wants.
That was Sex and the City...but in Queer Eye...They helped this guy, Ralph Sutton get ready for his blind date. Now Ralph is a DJ for a radio station by passion, but to make money to fuel the passion, he DJ's at a strip bar by nite. He says he doesnt want to work at the strip bar...so lets give him the benefit of the doubt here...
Basically, for his debut of some sorts...he does a live session for the radio station where he gets to interview a star from some rock band...he has brought his blind date along to this with his twin brother, that doesnt look like him one bit (obviously not identical), and twin bro's gf.
Blind date looks like she is having fun...while the guest and band rock on...afterwards we are shown a shot where Ralph is walking his date to the limo so she can be driven home...the crew from Queer Eye are divided on whats gonna happen after date #1...some think that the blind date may become more, ie a gf later on...while some think that it wont work out.
To me, obviously the girl would be appreciative of any guy who makes the effort to look good for the nite, who prepared something to eat - which turned out very edible, organises a limo as ur ride, speaks to u with respect and manners...u gotta be polite and friendly back towards them, right? I mean i would. I would also consider going out on a second date to really get a chance to know the guy better.
But if he wasnt my type, cos it was a blind date...i would still make it look like it was a great nite and that i really enjoyed his company. So that he wouldnt look bad, especially since i knew it was being taped...So i would make it look like there was a chance between the two of us. Deceptive...
So, whoever watched Queer Eye last nite, what do u think? Do u think rocker Ralph has a chance with the blind date? Do u think the blind date liked him? I think it was obvious that he liked the blind date...hehehe...All that smoothness talk about how his necklace came off...and the Queer Eye crew learnt a smooth move from Ralph...for those who missed it, Ralph said to the blind date that his necklace came off, and so she helped him put it back on - cos obviously he cant reach the clasp...ahahaha...and while he bent his head down so she could see the clasp he put his hand on her leg...
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In between watching the shows i tried on this dress my mother was sewing for her boss...its a black strapless...very Audrey...its for Winter...its woollen and comes to mid-calf...with stilettos on...its like OMG...i didnt want to take it off! it fit like a glove and i was so ready to just go to the Opera House! hehehe...i think i found my dress to wear to Michael Buble! *^_^*
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